Is six year old manipulating mama??

A Parent Wrote... "I have a feisty 5 year old little daughter . She has always been somewhat of handful lol she’s very sassy , a little hardheaded and really blunt & nonchalant about mostly everything. We have rules in my house that I reiterate daily (literally) I’m big on manners so I expect yes ma’am , no ma’am , please , thank you , excuse me etc. I expect for her to do what I ask without a lot of huffing and puffing (essentially I don’t ask her to do much) small things like keep her toys tidy , clean up messes she makes , take care of her hair her teeth (I do this for her but she hates it and I constantly explain to her hygiene is important ) I expect her to respect others , to not be a bully , be kind use kind words and overall you know just try and be a good person. We have these conversations DAILY cause I want to instill these things in her. My daughter confuses me because she does things like this: last night she got into my phone and took over a 100 pictures with her middle finger up and her tongue out thinking she was cute. This morning I asked her: I said why did you take these photos she said “idk” I said well are we allowed to be doing these kind of things she said “no” I asked her if she knew it was wrong and she said “yes”. Even though I preach these things to her she STILL does these behaviors and she verbalizes that it is wrong but seems as though she does not care. I’m at a loss here. People will think my kid has no home training when In actuality she does she just does not care or acts like she doesn’t idk. What should I do." In this podcast episode, I try very hard to have compassion........but honestly? Mama, this one is on you. Let's talk about NOT talking! Welcome to Season 2 episode 2 of the Recreate Parenting Podcast. Feisty Five Year Old